What I've been writing
Pieces on dating, marriage, and parenting, written for the people living through them — some adapted from what I've published elsewhere, building toward what comes next.
Marriage
Staying close to someone who is struggling, without disappearing
When a spouse is unwell, love and self-preservation stop feeling like the same thing. On boundaries that are not abandonment — and on what belongs to licensed professionals.
September 4, 2026
Marriage
Three things that hold a relationship together
Honesty, treating the relationship as something you learn from, and gratitude. Why lying is expensive, and two techniques for saying a hard thing well.
September 4, 2026
Also writes at The Times of Israel
I have been writing there since before this site existed. These pieces are written for that readership and stay there — a few of them became the basis for what is above, adapted for a broader audience.
- Love, Loss, and Second Chances
- When Love Feels Hard
- Avoiding Help at All Costs
- Building Strong Bonds
- Rhythms of Love