What I've been writing
Pieces on dating, marriage, and parenting, written for the people living through them — some adapted from what I've published elsewhere, building toward what comes next.
For professionals
What relationship coaching is, and what it is not
The field gets a jaded rap, and I understand some of it. What coaching is, what it is not, and why the person choosing a coach has to do their own vetting.
September 4, 2026
Dating
When dating stops feeling worth it
The letdown, over and over, turns into a numbness that is hard to date from. Three things that cause it — and what actually helps with each one.
September 4, 2026
Marriage
Staying close to someone who is struggling, without disappearing
When a spouse is unwell, love and self-preservation stop feeling like the same thing. On boundaries that are not abandonment — and on what belongs to licensed professionals.
September 4, 2026
Parents
When the kids are running the house
What's cute at three is not cute at ten. On the family where the roles have quietly flipped, why it happens, and the three steps back.
September 4, 2026
Marriage
Three things that hold a relationship together
Honesty, treating the relationship as something you learn from, and gratitude. Why lying is expensive, and two techniques for saying a hard thing well.
September 4, 2026
Also writes at The Times of Israel
I have been writing there since before this site existed. These pieces are written for that readership and stay there — a few of them became the basis for what is above, adapted for a broader audience.
- Love, Loss, and Second Chances
- When Love Feels Hard
- Avoiding Help at All Costs
- Building Strong Bonds
- Rhythms of Love